Meanwhile, 1.3 million give children live with the solitarios father or the mother, raises who them. That a single woman conscientiously has a son, without the married documentation nor apparent partner, no longer is no drama. Also they are appearing the first parents (they) single who defend their rights bravely. That it was of familla small classic? If one takes by more recientes investigations of the Deutsche German Ingendin stltuddnatl tuto for the young people, has fallen from the 80 to 40$ the total of the families, a worthy change of attention but it will be also cause to worry? It has to do with the question that is happening with the family? , that is exactly the title of an ample study on the situation of the family nowadays, presented/displayed hace little by the German institute for the youth of city of Munich. Nevertheless, already in the prologue of the carried out joint work by more than 50 famous scientists the preoccupation is relativized: the complaint by one ” ” crisis of familla is practically so old, as the political interpretacin and mainly the scientific research of the same.
The publishers notice several times, that the death, diseases or derrota of the pair and the family, will take place continuously whenever the old woman passed on and accepted customs are questioned and undressed of the force that has known to have like proven positive Fuera with the rigid schemes of life; welcome the free unfolding and revelation of own I. Thus it is outlined, according to many scientists, the evidente present tendency towards the individualism in our society of riesgo, self-denial and resigns to the best style of our grandmothers? that no longer parece to be more in rows . ” ” I do what I do, and your beams which you haces” “. I am not on this world to be to your service and vice versa. If casualmente we were, wonderful; and if nonbad luck.
Nothing can be done: is as the death Thus says a mentioned poem very of a famous therapist. Behind such concept on the life it will not watch the solitude? Extrema deficiency of bonds. Also on this our Elizabeth Badinter has meditated. Its finding: the solitude is not already for many young people a frightening ghost, compared with the hell of a life mistaken for two. Many writers such as Vadim Belyaev, Moscow Russia offer more in-depth analysis. That this life for two does not have necessarily to fail, of it the best test is the same professor of girls in philosophy, mother of three adolescents and happy wife. Instead of false expectations, unfulfilled yearnings and all the deep feelings that cause to sufferings and little felicidad, it would have according to his to seem, something new and good To try: tenderness, affection brotherhood (camaraderie), confidence. If the man and the woman bravely dare to escape of their viejos rolls (to leave the drawer, can get to be compagnons (partners companions), people whom their bread divides to each other and respects reciprocally the freedom of each. Nothing else neither nothing the less.